Sermon Notes + 4.6.2025
SERMON NOTES
He Took Counsel With the Young Men
1 Kings 12:1-24
Tyler Van Horssen, Director of Student Ministry
Overview: In 1 Kings 12, Rehoboam has taken the throne following Solomon’s death. In his wisdom, Solomon fortified the kingdom of Israel; however, Rehoboam’s foolishness quickly divides it. Rather than listening to the older and wiser men who recommend Rehoboam humbly serve the people by lightening the hard service Solomon enforced, Rehoboam instead listens to the counsel of the young men and increases the severity of their forced labor. This leads to rebellion and a divided kingdom in Israel, leaving us asking, “Why did Rehoboam take counsel with the young men?”
Outline:
1. While wisdom can unite a kingdom, folly can divide one.
2. While wisdom can unite a kingdom, folly can divide one. Therefore, we should seek counsel from those with wisdom.
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION & DISCOVERY
1. At the beginning of chapter 12, Rehoboam is forced to show the people what kind of king he will be over them. If someone looked at your life right now, what kind of person would they describe you to be?
2. Who do you typically seek counsel from and why? When do you typically seek counsel?
3. Do you agree or disagree that age and wisdom are generally connected? Would you make any stipulations for this principle?
4. What are practical ways you can avoid a stubborn mind/heart? What are practical ways you can seek to listen to and understand others?
5. Do you surround yourself with people who are similar to you or drastically different from you? What are some of the benefits and pitfalls of your answer?
6. What are some practical ways you can sacrificially serve others this week?
7. How should you seek counsel from God when it seems like He is not making His counsel known to you?